December 2011
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Anonymous asked: I have had a yeast infection for a few days now, and it REALLY, REALLY hurts down there. my bf is out of town but he will be home soon, and I know he will want to have sex...but I obviously won't be able to with a disgusting yeast infection. I don't know what to do or what I will say to him when he wants to have sex, because I know he will. HELP?! :/
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Anonymous asked: Was around some of his friends and they were saying "They've seen the messages" and all this shit. I got really mad and asked him about it but I'm pretty sure he was just lying saying he doesn't show anyone. I know I'll always have a thing for him, and i always still think about him even though we don't talk anymore. What do I do?
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Anonymous asked: Hey, so whenever me and my boyfriend have sex i always feel really awkward and get embaressed. I get worried because girls do so much on porn and i'm not sure whether i'm supposed to have sex like that.. sorry if this doesn't make any sense.. I'm not embaressed of my body with him, just what i should do with my body.. Any advice?
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Anonymous asked: do you have tips for giving better blow jobs?
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Anonymous asked: Firstly thanks for this blog, it's brilliant! I've read your posts on blow jobs etc but I was wondering if you could give me some tips on tongue techniques? or link me some good videos that explain it to me? I'm at a complete loss as to what to do and I can't find anything good myself! Also, tips on deep throating?
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Anonymous asked: Heyy.. im 14 and im a girl. i have been really i guess horny lately. is this normal? and also is there any way i can easily turn myself on? with details?
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Anonymous asked: Hi there! I recently lost my virginity and am still learning things obviously, but I'm a bit nervous about switching around with positions. I'm not a very fit girl, I'm not overweight, but I can barely hold my weight sometimes which can be pretty embarrassing. I'm worried about trying something new and ending up looking and feeling unattractive (and stupid). Is this silly?
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Anonymous asked: hey, sometimes when i'm with a girl and we are making out, we get proper in the mood to have sex, then when it comes to it, i go soft down there and can't get back up, i'm really puzzled by it as i'm not a virgin so i don't get nervous or anything, do you have any idea as to why its happening??
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Anonymous asked: hello :D so i want to give my boyfriend a handjob but i have a few questions: do you still kiss whilst doing it or just concentrate on that? what is a good position for doing it in? also i read your FAQ's and i don't have any lube and would take him in my mouth but then would he get the wrong idea and be disappointed when i take him out of my mouth? because i don't want to give him...
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Anonymous asked: So there's this guy I go out now and then, I really like him but he's kinda... "slow motion". Like, very slow. I'd like to go to the "second level" with him but he's not helping. What do I do to make it clear, that I'm interested in sex? I mean, I'm super shy and definitely not confident. Sometimes I can't even talk to him... But when I put...
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Anonymous asked: i have a question. so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 years and our relationship has been long distance the entire time and so that leads to seeing each other every two weeks, sometimes even more. he always complains that all i ever want is sex from him but i rarely ever get it even when i do see him. he always complains he's not good at it but i always tell him he is and...
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Anonymous asked: imagine a girl being forced to have sex with a guy, but it turns out that she enjoys it and has orgasm. do you still consider this as a rape?
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subfornails asked: To the girl whose guy claims he 'can't cum' from handjobs because she has given him too many. HE IS LYING! This is just something guys say to a girl to get them to go further. He is just tired of handjobs and wants more; either blowjobs or sex. Do not believe him for a minute! Don't let him guilt and goad you into giving him more than you want to!
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Anonymous asked: Can two people be in lust with each other?
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Anonymous asked: female
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Anonymous asked: This sounds stupid, but what does an orgasm feel like?:/
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Anonymous asked: i wouldnt call it a shame i love being in love its just i cant find a lasting love ive been in so many loving realationships and enjoyed all of them, but i keep getting screwed over in the end and thats what turned me away from serious relationships, what i wrote earlier didnt specify what i really meant
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Anonymous asked: okay. so well my boyfriend wants to know how to turn me on. but i dont know exactly how he can? can you please give us some tips? :)
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Anonymous asked: is taking a shit on a girl's chest a turn on for them that they are afraid to admit?
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Anonymous asked: Should a guy have an erection before you give him a hand job/blow job? Or does he get one from you doing it?
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Anonymous asked: when i try to put my finger in my vagina i feel uncomfortable. P.S . i was the girl you just answered :D
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Anonymous asked: (please don't post if this isn't anonymous) okay so my boyfriend told me he can't cum anymore because I've given him a hj so many times he's used to it therefore he cannot cum, what can I do to switch things up and make him orgasm?
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Anonymous asked: hi i haven't had sex but i do mastrubate alot but i haven't ever suirted ever does that mean i cant ??
P.S. looooove your blog. best i've ever come across :D
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Anonymous asked: Hi, im an 18 year old male, my whole life ive been in serious relationships and sex came with time and trust and love ive come to find out im wasting my life when i could be out there meeting girls and making love with different girls im too young to be tied down, my question is how do i approach a girl and let her know i just want to have sex and no relationships, but i do not want to meet sluty...
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Anonymous asked: I have 2 part question. 1. I've been having sex for the past 4 years.. And in all honesty, I think I have had 1 orgasm (the only reason I know is because I squirted).. And it's quite depressing. I mean, I can't even masturbate. Any words of advice? and 2. I've been on my perriod.. for almost a solid month now. Any thoughts?
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Anonymous asked: I'm 18(almost 19) a virgin and gay. I don't like going out to clubs and I'm open for a relationship. How can I meet other gay people around me without dealing with the douches at clubs?
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Anonymous asked: Hey! its the anon you answered about 10 minutes ago lol, things went really well, I just ended up telling him that its been a long time and that i was nervous, so we decided to take it slow, so after just watching movies etc i just told him that im nervous and that he should just take the lead in initating things, which he did! thanks so much for the advice, itll help in future and most likely for...
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Anonymous asked: I feel like my vagina has a funky smell and I'm scared to be eaten out because of it. I wash myself every single day but there seems to still be a little stench. Is this normal?
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Anonymous asked: hey, i think your advice is really great :) right well, i'm a 16 year old girl, and me and my boyfriend do get pretty intimate but i'm bigger than him and i just feel paranoid all the time ;/ was just wondering if you had any advice on how to relax or not feel as paranoid x
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Anonymous asked: Hey, im 18 (and gay), Ive only had sex once and it wasnt very good but i put that down to the person i was with, he wasnt very nice, But ive met someone new and ive known him for a few years, hes coming to mines tomorrow and its more than likely we'll end up doing the deed, but im a bit scared, Im more comfortable being the reciever but im still nervous, i dont know how to prepare, what to do...
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Anonymous asked: I'm close to loosing my virginity to a guy and i dont shave down below because i dont feel the need to. Would males find that unattractive and refuse to have sex or what? I mean i will shave if i have to im just scared that when he finds out i dont he might not have sex with me.. Help?
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Anonymous asked: part 3. talking and then he made the move to kiss me and we starting making out. He started feeling me up and once again tried to put his hand down my pants and i told him not now, so we went back to making out. He was my first kiss. Im really not sure if he likes me or not, i think the alcohol had worn off of him by then too because he seemed sober. In the morning it was awkward again and i cant...
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Anonymous asked: i see so many questions on here with "i'm 15" - "i'm 16" and stuff. i'm 18, about to be 19 soon, still a virgin and i think i haven't even been in love yet. is it so bad? it makes me feel pretty sad to read all the questions on here. :( do i maybe demand too high standards for "my perfect boyfriend"? i think i'd just be too afraid to be fooled...
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Anonymous asked: I want to try anal sex but I'm scared that poo will get on his penis. How do I avoid this?
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Anonymous asked: isnt it better to not be loose? i have sex with my bf and yea like its enough for him to go in but its not super loose he says loose ones are good? haha idk unless i dont get the reason..
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Anonymous asked: my boyfriend wants to have sex on new years for the first time, we have been together for 1 year and like im fucking keen but in scared that it might brake and i get pregnant. and also im scared that in doing it wrong and all that shit.? HEEEELP!? <333333
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Anonymous asked: Hello :) I really like your blog it's helped me with a lot of stuff... But umm my boyfriend and I want to try anal. We have tried before but it really hurt and we didn't have proper lube. We're going to be trying it again soon with proper water based lube but does that stop the pain? and is it wrong to have anal sex if you're a girl?
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